Whats in a Question

A student surprised me with an apology last night. After he explained further, he apparently felt bad about questioning a piece of a form.

Its funny, how differently people can perceive a situation.

I thought his question to be valid and took no offence, he on the other hand was concerned about challenging the Sifu.

Here is how I see it.

There are no bad questions. Its not what you ask but how you ask.

Before a question is asked, I think to myself, take the potential conflict or challenge out of the question and put in respect.

Some questions may need to be asked privately and some questions need to be asked publicly to benefit all. Judgement and discretion have to come into play.

This is not just proper conduct for the Kwoon but in everyday relationships.

So, to the individual, I say, no apology required, however, you bring up a good point regarding etiquette within the school.

Everyone we share our time with, students and Sifus alike are valuable training partners and mentors, we do not want to alienate ourselves with disrespectful tone of voice or asking questions in a challenging manner.
All questions are valid and quite frankly questions shake the complacency that can set in.

JC Masterson, Silent River Kung Fu, Alberta , Canada