The Tiger Challenge yesterday made me proud and grateful.
Proud of my son and grateful to the wonderful group of
people known as the Children's Instructors.
You see, about 5 months ago I was about to pull him out of
the Black Dragons. Lack of interest, attention and even respect but he insisted
he wanted to stay. I instead, removed myself from the floor and let the other
Instructors do their thing.
Where my son lacks focus and attention he makes up for in
energy and personality so I was not sure how he would improve so i would wait and see... but I would have
to say that yesterday was a direct product of his Instructors’ hard work.
Yesterday started out rough for my son, he lost out on a
competition that brought him to tears as he tried to hide in the corner. A few
consoling words from mom brought him back but now he was visibly upset and
unsure of himself.
I let him be and he continued on.
Two Divisions later, I saw something in him I had not seen before. He pulled
himself together, his determination and focus came from someplace I didn't know
he had and he preserved to do his very best for his next competition.
He won a gold.
It came from him and him alone. It was his hard work and it
was his focus.
I could not have been more proud, not because he won a medal
but because he grew 10 feet tall that moment.
I have been struggling with his ability focus on school work
and other skills for some time now but these moments of focus and calm seem to
come more frequent now and for that I am excited.
Strictly speaking as a mom, as a parent, in only a few short
months the lessons taught in his class are starting to emerge. I’m not talking
about the kicks and punches but the life skills.
The Tiger Challenge was a great opportunity for me to witness
those skills that are blooming within him. And for that, a thanks to all.

1 comment:
I had a similiar observation the other night when we spoke, and the same decision of wether or not to keep the little one in or not was in the air. That is until I watched her do her form that class and her homework the next night. There such little stinkers!
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