Saturday, October 6, 2012

My Auntie


A spent last night visiting with my Auntie.

She passed away this morning at 7am.

I have been in denial for months about her condition. I have been angry for months about her condition. Reality was harsh last night when I had to face the end of such a lovely woman’s life.  My Auntie is the most giving person I know, she did not pursue a career, master any hobby but her life was about giving. To children,… always about children, her own, her grandchildren, neighborhood children,.. she  treated them all, including me, like her own. My fondest childhood memories include her and my Uncle. My Aunties life career was Children.

So why, I ask ,take her.

 I sit here now reflecting on her life and her influence she had on me.

Of course, it was her quality of life I need to reflect on. She touched so many people, especially the young with her example of giving and caring and just simply taking care of you.The more she gave the more extraordinary she grew.  She has placed a little piece of that in all her family and friends.

I am sad today, but I am so thankful to have known her and so grateful to be her niece.

4 comments:

Brian Chervenka said...

My deepest condolences Sifu. I know what it means to be influenced and reminded of what life is supposed to be by the example of a passing and the appreciation of a loved one that never faltered.

Krysta said...

I am so sorry for your loss Sifu--but so glad she was such a special person to you. She sounds like a very awesome person. Like her niece:)

Tania Brinker said...

I am really sorry for your loss Sifu. I truly feel your pain. However I know she is alive in you, and by keeping her alive in your heart, she will always be with you.

Sifu Robyn Kichko said...

I am sorry that you lost your auntie and I am glad that you have lots of good memories of your time together.