Death, Taxes and Kids getting Sick

I have time now to blog, 3 things you can count on...death, taxes and kids getting sick. Right now I am inbetween puke duty bouts. I was up late last night and going to work today was out of the question.

Work has sucked lately, I took on a 4 month superintendent position and its been more than consuming. Its only temporary but I have found it so exhausting it has cost me in other areas of my life. Its not so much the overtime as it is taxing mentally. Work ethic, integrity and accountability can be difficult to find in people sometimes.
When I have time to hang out with Raymond or work out it takes alot to fire up the mental motivation, my enthusiasm is tapped.

Its never good when your kids are sick, but when you take a time out to be with them and just nurse them back to health, you also get time to contemplate the important things or more accurately the important people.

JC Masterson, Silent River Kung Fu, Alberta, Canada

Awareness Training

Try and add another perspective to your training. Awareness…, in particular, your partner.


A lot of times during applications, defence techniques or sparring we concentrate on what we are doing as an individual. Over and over again trying to improve the way we move or attack while not paying much attention to our training partner’s movements.
Its normal, especially when you are new to the marital arts and even as a seasoned practitioner, you find yourself (myself!) focused on your own form when faced with something unfamiliar.
Try watching and feeling how the other person works with you. If the attack is not executed in the manner the drill was meant to be it changes everything for you, but this is not to say it is a negative thing, when you recognize a difference in their body movements you can also work on adjusting your reaction to compensate or if too far of the mark it may be a time to correct.
Very often when we start to become aware of how our training partner moves its visual.
To compliment the visual aspect you want to seek another level of awareness by feel. This takes some practice but when you start to use more than one of your senses you begin to improve your timing a lot faster.

Here's something you might want to try for fun, if you are practicing your applications try working with your partner and close your eyes. Carefully of course, this means a clear area and move slowly to allow for balance issues.

Once the distraction of vision is removed you will be surprised at how much you can read from the other person when you make contact. It’s a fun drill and done safely it gives you a new perspective.

JC Masterson, Silent River Kung Fu, Alberta,Canada

Defeat the Monster

Stress in our lives can be immediate or it can be something looming in the background.

Usually we deal with the immediate first and foremost. Its in our face and we have no choice but  to address it.

Its the stuff that sits in the back of your mind, slowly simmering that can literally kill us. Chronic stress will wake us up in the middle of the night and keep us up till the alarm clock goes off (yeah, that was last night).

You cant ignore the chronic stress, actually , I guess you can ignore it but you shouldn't. Chronic stress may not change your life all of a sudden but it  does change your life slowly and almost silently.

Solution: deal with it now, make a plan to rid yourself of it.

First , clearly identify whats bothering  you, then decide how to solve it. This is the scary part because this is where we have to face a solution  that might not always be the most pleasant to carry out. It might mean confronting someone or something we are not comfortable with or it might mean some hard work or sacrifice on our part to accomplish.
It may take days , months or even years, but once you start taking some action you have already started to defeat the monster.

JC Masterson, Silent River Kung Fu, Alberta, Canada