Sparring and Control

How do we know when we have complete control?

It is very subjective and can be perceived differently by others. Watching two people spar is a task in interpretation. Who made the best shot, the first shot, within range, who has a strategy, who is merely reacting and who has control?

As a student you have to determine if you have control of yourself. If you maintain control of yourself you systematically take away your opponents own self control.

How does one determine this?

I came across a description of control as an “option of compassion”.

Let me explain why I agree with it.

To follow the path of the martial artist, many hours are put into practicing the basics of centering ones self to gain control of your actions. The martial artist will then move on to practicing applications and techniques with a training partner.

Practice gives you the ability to react but it takes mastery to include control of the reaction.

This is the ability to apply a technique with a degree of control that allows you the

“ option of compassion”.

Meaning, I can either seriously hurt this attacker or I can choose to apply just enough pressure to ensure my training partner knows I have positively executed a strike or break without causing them pain or injury.

This level of control happens by choice not by chance. This is the control as a martial artist that we strive for through practice and feedback from our fellow training partners.
This is why it is so important to maintain a healthy training relationship with your peers.
The more variety and exposure the closer the goal of Control becomes.

JC Masterson, Silent River Kung Fu, Alberta, Canada

Thoughts on a Friday Afternoon

I used to think Focus and Self-Confidence were unrelated.
As I watch students, my son and discover my own flaws and issues the two are parallel in my view.
If you find yourself failing at something it requires Focus to dig deep and discover what you need to change. If self-confidence is lacking it becomes a distraction.
A lack of self confidence will tell you "you will fail before you even try" or worse a lack of self confidence will tell you " I can't".
When Focus brings improvement it nurtures your self confidence then the two build on one another.
There is no better motivator then improvement.
Improvement equals results and results drive a person forward.
So, I say to myself "I can" there is no self doubt, now there is only time to focus and improve.

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JC Masterson, Silent River Kung Fu, Alberta, Canada

65.8%

I haven't been sick for a while, but I definitely caught something. Ear,throat thingy. It hasn't stopped me in my tracks but it has taken the drive and ambition out of me.
I hate being sick, no time for it.
Ironically, its time that fixes it.
OK, I'm done complaining, I just hate running at 65.8%.

JC Masterson, Silent River Kung Fu, Alberta, Canada

To Vote is to be Canadian

It may not have turned out the way you wanted or maybe it did, but one thing is clear...the Canadian people can still exercise their voting ability to make a statement.

I think a statement was made, by the Canadians who took their voting right seriously.
Change can be made in the government. Politicians will be held accountable, and I for one want to see some work carried out by the political leaders. Show me what you propose for this country is going to work. Give me the background , give me the reasons, give me something more than just broad platforms and proposals. 
 Government now has the foundation to start turning the wheels without blaming internal strive within the house from roadblocking everything, yet they still have a healthy opposition and hopefully the new circumstance will allow for professional debate with the countries best interest at heart.

Boy, did I wake up the "Optimist" this morning!

JC Masterson, Silent River Kung Fu, Alberta, Canada